Why do people say love is blind? Simply because when one is in love, they are blinded to each other’s flaws. To him, she is perfect, and to her, he is perfect, even if others say or feel otherwise.
My friend’s story makes me reflect. Why would any girl be with someone who does not treat her well and give up someone who is likely to treat her much better? Maybe because she loves the guy, so is totally blinded to all his flaws.
To me, love means all encompassing. You take each other as a whole because no one is perfect. Everyone is different. It is not a matter of how perfect you want the person to be, but how perfect you can be to him.
I read this somewhere, and it has since stuck in my mind :-
“Are you holding out for the perfect guy?”
“No, I am looking for the most imperfect guy so I can love him perfectly.”
Well said! And very meaningful indeed!
L.O.V.E. (Nat King Cole)
L is for the way you look at me
O is for the only one I see
V is very, very extraordinary
E is even more than anyone that you adore can
Love is all that I can give to you
Love is more than just a game for two
Two in love can make it
Take my heart and please don’t break it
Love was made for me and you
L is for the way you look at me
O is for the only one I see
V is very, very extraordinary
E is even more than anyone that you adore can
Love is all that I can give to you
Love is more than just a game for two
Two in love can make it
Take my heart and please don’t break it
Love was made for me and you
Love was made for me and you
Love was made for me and you
My friend’s story makes me reflect. Why would any girl be with someone who does not treat her well and give up someone who is likely to treat her much better? Maybe because she loves the guy, so is totally blinded to all his flaws.
To me, love means all encompassing. You take each other as a whole because no one is perfect. Everyone is different. It is not a matter of how perfect you want the person to be, but how perfect you can be to him.
I read this somewhere, and it has since stuck in my mind :-
“Are you holding out for the perfect guy?”
“No, I am looking for the most imperfect guy so I can love him perfectly.”
Well said! And very meaningful indeed!
L.O.V.E. (Nat King Cole)
L is for the way you look at me
O is for the only one I see
V is very, very extraordinary
E is even more than anyone that you adore can
Love is all that I can give to you
Love is more than just a game for two
Two in love can make it
Take my heart and please don’t break it
Love was made for me and you
L is for the way you look at me
O is for the only one I see
V is very, very extraordinary
E is even more than anyone that you adore can
Love is all that I can give to you
Love is more than just a game for two
Two in love can make it
Take my heart and please don’t break it
Love was made for me and you
Love was made for me and you
Love was made for me and you
2 comments:
“Are you holding out for the perfect guy?”
“No, I am looking for the most imperfect guy so I can love him perfectly.”
lovely..
Yup, lovely indeed!
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