I went for a premier of "The Ugly Truth" movie last night. The movie is really hilarious! It is the ugly truth and the truth hurts! What was stated in the show about men seem really true! Like men like women who are not controlling, who do not criticise or tell them what to do, who let men be in control of the relationship.
No wonder someone like me is still unattached, because I talk too much, I say it as it is, even to the extent of constructive criticism, I like to be in control as in I like to know where we are going in the relationship instead of living each day as it comes. I have lived enough of "each day as it came" and that feeling was not good at all as it made me very insecure and adverse to my own self-esteem.
Women, on the other hand, also have a checklist of what they want the men to be. He must be dashing, high-flier, charming, romantic, etc. But the last scene of the show is really good. The message is that for a woman, no matter how a guy fulfils everything in her checklist, if in the end she has to always pretend to be someone she is not just to snag the guy, then it is not worth it.
And for a man, no matter how controlling, talkative, neurotic, obsessive-compulsive, perfectionist the woman is (qualities which are sure to turn men off), at the end of the day, if he cannot help falling in love with her, all those qualities do not matter in the end.
Moral of the story - People can have a checklist of what they like and what they do not like, but when they really fall for someone, even if the someone is totally out of their criteria, at the end of the day, nothing really matters because they have no idea why they fall for each other but still cannot help falling for each other. How sweet! And that is love!
No wonder someone like me is still unattached, because I talk too much, I say it as it is, even to the extent of constructive criticism, I like to be in control as in I like to know where we are going in the relationship instead of living each day as it comes. I have lived enough of "each day as it came" and that feeling was not good at all as it made me very insecure and adverse to my own self-esteem.
Women, on the other hand, also have a checklist of what they want the men to be. He must be dashing, high-flier, charming, romantic, etc. But the last scene of the show is really good. The message is that for a woman, no matter how a guy fulfils everything in her checklist, if in the end she has to always pretend to be someone she is not just to snag the guy, then it is not worth it.
And for a man, no matter how controlling, talkative, neurotic, obsessive-compulsive, perfectionist the woman is (qualities which are sure to turn men off), at the end of the day, if he cannot help falling in love with her, all those qualities do not matter in the end.
Moral of the story - People can have a checklist of what they like and what they do not like, but when they really fall for someone, even if the someone is totally out of their criteria, at the end of the day, nothing really matters because they have no idea why they fall for each other but still cannot help falling for each other. How sweet! And that is love!
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