Lilypie

Thursday, August 10, 2006

Questions, Questions, Questions ....

Is it a habit of guys that they treat a girl so nicely during courtship, and once they confirm she is their girlfriend, they will stop being nice to her and start being hot and cold as and when? In that case, is it still worth it for a girl to put in so much in a relationship if the guy is probably only waiting for her to leave?

If the guy wants to leave in the first place, why does he not do so? Why must he give the girl undue misery and make her give up on him? So he can then say she left him instead of the other way round?

Shall a good guy cause his girl to shed tears over him? Shall he leave her emotionally detached and alone when she needs him around the most? Does he really love her deeply enough as he claims if he does not even want to let her know his whereabouts and his actions for the day, despite the numerous times she asked?

Shall a guy trust his girlfriend wholly, fully, implicitly and explcitly and not cause her undue worry by not contacting her for a day despite her numerous attempts to contact him? Shall he tell her everything, so she will not misunderstand and think of unnecessary things?

People may say the girl thinks too much, but honestly, if she does not treasure the love and relationship, does not love the guy and is totally and wholeheartedly in love with him, will she even bother having any reaction?

Is she too demanding then? Too unreasonable? Shall she be more understanding, and not ask any questions at all even if he never contacts her for a day? Is she justified to flare up then? Is it too much to ask for the guy to even be there for her and to share his happiness and problems with her so she can share in his feelings and emotions too?

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