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Wednesday, March 25, 2009

A Social Butterfly?

Just did a personality quiz and this is what came out. Took me by surprise, I should say, as this is a first! Despite that, the quiz is a pretty accurate assessment of me! Maybe I took this at this stage in my life with my feelings and emotions at this stage, the results turn out different from before. So if I really am a social butterfly, then I have succeeded in taking charge of this aspect at least! :-)

The Social Butterfly

You are...

Friendly. Sociable. A positive thinker. Light hearted. Animated. Stylish. Open. Emotional. Convincing. Magnetic. Enthusiastic. Persuasive. Warm. Demonstrative. Trusting. Optimistic.

Your strengths...

You are a great encourager. Through your optimism, you inspire others to achieve. You are an instinctive communicator and you usually just know exactly what to say. You are enthusiastic and you work well with people. You love people; hence you usually accomplish your goals through people. You have a positive attitude and you can always create an atmosphere of love and well-being.

Dating Advice for The Social Butterfly

1. Slow down. You tend to speak really fast. Remember to slow down your pace when you are on your date. Try to mirror your date, and adjust your speaking speed accordingly. The down side is they tend to be impulsive and inattentive to details.

2. Be less emotional. The Social Butterfly tends to be an emotional creature. Learn to exercise control over your actions, words and emotions, especially your words. Do not get too flooded with your emotions, but focus on the facts, and also the reality.

3. Pay attention to details. The Social Butterfly can sometimes come across as superficial and lack sincerity. Pay more attention to the details. Rather than sweeping remarks such as, "You are so beautiful!" or "You look great!" - take time to appreciate the efforts taken e.g. a matching bracelet and earring, or interesting cufflinks.

4. Talk less; listen more. You are very enthusiastic, and might get carried away hogging most of the conversation. Give some airtime to your date as well.

If you are dating The Social Butterfly

1. Don't suggest that you guys do nothing but stay at home over the weekend. The Social Butterfly needs social time, time to meet up with friends. It is through talking and socializing that they recharge. [Not true in this context. I have no qualms staying home and just relax over the weekend!]

2. The Social Butterfly does not like to handle details. If you guys are planning a trip, best is you do the planning so that you do not get frustrated with the lack of planning being done! [Not true too! I enjoy doing the planning for the trip, even to the littlest details!]

3. The Social Butterfly loves praises. The Social Butterfly yearns to be accepted. Say thank you for the sweet gesture. Be appreciative, and you will win his/her heart.

4. When arguing, do not stone-wall The Social Butterfly. Their greatest fear is rejection. They work much better in a favorable and friendly environment.

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