I am rather frustrated. Come to think of it, it is but a small thing so maybe I should not kick up such a big fuss. But I do not like the way some people handle things. Maybe that is what is called in Chinese - 好心做坏事. You try to do a good thing for others, but end up making everyone else uncomfortable.
Maybe it is my fault in the first place. I thought it would be great for all, without realising that some people are not comfortable with the idea. Still, I do not need to be put down like that! I do not like the way some people want to take on ownership and do everything on their own, as if what they do will definitely be good and what I do will definitely be lousy! I do not appreciate being talked down! Why can we not work together?
Well, as I said, it is just a little thing. I should not kick up such a big fuss. People do not need to agree with what I do, but still, what I do not like is they do not have to be so insensitive and bounce me everywhere, as if I have not been bounced enough! The most frustrating thing is that I did put in effort in researching and consolidating whatever needed to be done, and then I just got put down with no form of recognition!
Do people not see I did those at my own time instead of business hours because I was doing people favours as that was technically not official? I thought since others were busy and I happend to be there, I might as well help out since it is in my area of expertise. That is what one gets for volunteering to be helpful!
Maybe it is my fault in the first place. I thought it would be great for all, without realising that some people are not comfortable with the idea. Still, I do not need to be put down like that! I do not like the way some people want to take on ownership and do everything on their own, as if what they do will definitely be good and what I do will definitely be lousy! I do not appreciate being talked down! Why can we not work together?
Well, as I said, it is just a little thing. I should not kick up such a big fuss. People do not need to agree with what I do, but still, what I do not like is they do not have to be so insensitive and bounce me everywhere, as if I have not been bounced enough! The most frustrating thing is that I did put in effort in researching and consolidating whatever needed to be done, and then I just got put down with no form of recognition!
Do people not see I did those at my own time instead of business hours because I was doing people favours as that was technically not official? I thought since others were busy and I happend to be there, I might as well help out since it is in my area of expertise. That is what one gets for volunteering to be helpful!
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