Whenever I have a relationship post, my google ads will churn out notices on how to get an ex back. One search generates lots and lots of websites featuring the same thing - on how to get an ex back, the surefire way, the ebook on techniques, the guaranteed tips that have been proven and worked.
Broken relationships are so abundant. But I never know just how much demand there is on reconciliation until I read some of the websites. It is not so much on how to start a relationship, but rather how to get back with the person who dumped them, for both males and females.
But then almost everyone I know has gone through a broken relationship in some ways. The reason people break up is because they cannot get along anymore, is it not? No doubt some may get back together, but in most cases, most people will break and move on.
Actually it really depends on fate and divine intervention. There is no reason why some people manage to get back together, and why others end up with another person, someone whom they may not like as much even. People always say if it is fated to be, it will be yours.
A lot of motivational speakers are cashing in on these demands to help others find their soulmates and deal with breakups, and tips on getting an ex back. Perhaps their tips do work, otherwise some will not be so established, nor can they publish a book without any proven techniques in the first place.
How many people depend on these techniques in the first place? None I know. So many people through the years have entered into relationships, married, have kids, and stayed together, without these so-called techniques.
The points brought up by these motivational speakers are pretty tempting. From the gist I have read through, most of them are quite common sensical actually. Perhaps to some these techniques do work. But how many others have used these techniques yet failed?
Again, it all boils down to fate, is it not? Some people break up, but somehow end up together again. Others break up, one moves on and the other keeps holding on. In this case, it is almost impossible to get back together because a relationship is not just on one person alone.
Maybe these techniques do help to an extent. But I daresay even without these techniques, those who got back together again would still possibly have done it even without these tips. After all, when the time is right, all will fall into place.
I have a friend who was seeing this girl for two months, then suddenly she stopped talking to him for seven months, after that she started talking to him again, and from then on, their relationship progressed and now they are getting married.
So never say never. This is what I am telling myself too. Perhaps when the timing is right, something unexpected may happen? No harm being optimistic and hopeful.
Broken relationships are so abundant. But I never know just how much demand there is on reconciliation until I read some of the websites. It is not so much on how to start a relationship, but rather how to get back with the person who dumped them, for both males and females.
But then almost everyone I know has gone through a broken relationship in some ways. The reason people break up is because they cannot get along anymore, is it not? No doubt some may get back together, but in most cases, most people will break and move on.
Actually it really depends on fate and divine intervention. There is no reason why some people manage to get back together, and why others end up with another person, someone whom they may not like as much even. People always say if it is fated to be, it will be yours.
A lot of motivational speakers are cashing in on these demands to help others find their soulmates and deal with breakups, and tips on getting an ex back. Perhaps their tips do work, otherwise some will not be so established, nor can they publish a book without any proven techniques in the first place.
How many people depend on these techniques in the first place? None I know. So many people through the years have entered into relationships, married, have kids, and stayed together, without these so-called techniques.
The points brought up by these motivational speakers are pretty tempting. From the gist I have read through, most of them are quite common sensical actually. Perhaps to some these techniques do work. But how many others have used these techniques yet failed?
Again, it all boils down to fate, is it not? Some people break up, but somehow end up together again. Others break up, one moves on and the other keeps holding on. In this case, it is almost impossible to get back together because a relationship is not just on one person alone.
Maybe these techniques do help to an extent. But I daresay even without these techniques, those who got back together again would still possibly have done it even without these tips. After all, when the time is right, all will fall into place.
I have a friend who was seeing this girl for two months, then suddenly she stopped talking to him for seven months, after that she started talking to him again, and from then on, their relationship progressed and now they are getting married.
So never say never. This is what I am telling myself too. Perhaps when the timing is right, something unexpected may happen? No harm being optimistic and hopeful.
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