Why do I meet so many wolves lately? (I do not mean you, Ole Wolvie. But then again, I have yet to meet you. :-p) I was taking a nap in the train on my way home just now when I woke up just before I alighted and this fellow standing right in front of me was looking down .... into my dress.
I am getting so irritated with all these fellows around! Is a girl not safe anywhere now? Gone were those days when ladies needed escorts just to be out on the streets. Now we girls are independent and able to take care of ourselves, but somehow still meet desperados who target just about anyone off the streets.
Speaking of which, my previous post sparked off lots of responses. I am really touched as there are so many people out there who are concerned about my welfare, people whom I have never met and who are strangers in cyberspace. All I can say is "thank you" and I really appreciate your concerns.
However, there are some long-lost jokers whom I thought have already gone out of my life, suddenly asking since I have done it, am I willing to do it with them then? Now what gives anyone the idea that just because I have given in, I am then willing to do it with just about anyone?
I have a boyfriend, for goodness sake! A very nice one at that! I am not going to jeopardise my relationship for anything! Never will I ever cheat on him or fool around, not that I have ever done that in the first place.
Some people think that as long as you are not married, can still fool around. Even after one is married can still divorce. Granted we are living in the modern society where fooling around is so rampant, but I am a one-man woman, just like I will expect my guy to be a one-woman man.
What loyalty and respect will I be showing him if I can just have flings with anyone? How can I say I love him if I cannot even be faithful and play around? If I am the type of person who do not even take love relationships seriously, then I do not deserve to be loved by anyone, and I do not deserve to love anyone.
I have always been faithful to whoever I am with, and this aspect is not going to change. So if those guys want to meet me just to have a fling with me, I say forget it. Do not even bother asking me out as I will not respond. The last thing I want is to put myself into a position to be taken advantage of by others.
I am getting so irritated with all these fellows around! Is a girl not safe anywhere now? Gone were those days when ladies needed escorts just to be out on the streets. Now we girls are independent and able to take care of ourselves, but somehow still meet desperados who target just about anyone off the streets.
Speaking of which, my previous post sparked off lots of responses. I am really touched as there are so many people out there who are concerned about my welfare, people whom I have never met and who are strangers in cyberspace. All I can say is "thank you" and I really appreciate your concerns.
However, there are some long-lost jokers whom I thought have already gone out of my life, suddenly asking since I have done it, am I willing to do it with them then? Now what gives anyone the idea that just because I have given in, I am then willing to do it with just about anyone?
I have a boyfriend, for goodness sake! A very nice one at that! I am not going to jeopardise my relationship for anything! Never will I ever cheat on him or fool around, not that I have ever done that in the first place.
Some people think that as long as you are not married, can still fool around. Even after one is married can still divorce. Granted we are living in the modern society where fooling around is so rampant, but I am a one-man woman, just like I will expect my guy to be a one-woman man.
What loyalty and respect will I be showing him if I can just have flings with anyone? How can I say I love him if I cannot even be faithful and play around? If I am the type of person who do not even take love relationships seriously, then I do not deserve to be loved by anyone, and I do not deserve to love anyone.
I have always been faithful to whoever I am with, and this aspect is not going to change. So if those guys want to meet me just to have a fling with me, I say forget it. Do not even bother asking me out as I will not respond. The last thing I want is to put myself into a position to be taken advantage of by others.
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