I finally talked to a friend whom I have sort of lost contact with for a while. I cannot believe I have known him for more than nine years now. Wow! Anyway, I saw his newly revamped blog, (please do check it out, he is one writer that is a cut above the rest, just like the other friend of mine) with an interesting article in it.
In that particular entry, he was giving his two cents worth of women with big assets. Women with C-cups and above would need more time to get things done, and would have problems waking up in the morning due to the extra weight on the chest area. Perhaps women with big assets are already generally bigger than normal local women? I mean, one normally does not see someone small and petite with C-cups, unless they are the very lucky few who are born with big breasts.
This corresponded with an article I read recently. I cannot remember where I read the article, but it was on women going for breast reduction surgeries. There was this lady who was interviewed saying that when she put on weight, her breasts grew from a B to a D-cup. What would I give to have D-cups, and she actually went to get rid of them?! She said it was hard to shop for lingerie because local women are not that big (sad, but true), and the normal underwear she wore without the underwire weighed her down and caused a constriction on her chest. And it was uncomfortable to sleep. Recently she discovered her breasts sagging as they became too heavy for her petite frame, so she decided to go for surgery and reduced them to a C-cup.
Several others who were interviewed said a bigger chest area equates to a higher sense of insecurity. Other ladies will remark that they are not real, and men will want to gawk and stare. So whenever they talk to a guy, it is hard to tell if he is sincere or just ogling at her chest area. And all the women who were interviewed swear that their assets are all real!
Is it true then that people are never satisfied with what they have? For ladies who are flat, they want to be bigger, and for ladies who are lucky enough to be big, they want to reduce?! I will never go for any enhancement or reduction surgery because these are just not natural. Natural is the way I like mine, no matter what size they are!
In that particular entry, he was giving his two cents worth of women with big assets. Women with C-cups and above would need more time to get things done, and would have problems waking up in the morning due to the extra weight on the chest area. Perhaps women with big assets are already generally bigger than normal local women? I mean, one normally does not see someone small and petite with C-cups, unless they are the very lucky few who are born with big breasts.
This corresponded with an article I read recently. I cannot remember where I read the article, but it was on women going for breast reduction surgeries. There was this lady who was interviewed saying that when she put on weight, her breasts grew from a B to a D-cup. What would I give to have D-cups, and she actually went to get rid of them?! She said it was hard to shop for lingerie because local women are not that big (sad, but true), and the normal underwear she wore without the underwire weighed her down and caused a constriction on her chest. And it was uncomfortable to sleep. Recently she discovered her breasts sagging as they became too heavy for her petite frame, so she decided to go for surgery and reduced them to a C-cup.
Several others who were interviewed said a bigger chest area equates to a higher sense of insecurity. Other ladies will remark that they are not real, and men will want to gawk and stare. So whenever they talk to a guy, it is hard to tell if he is sincere or just ogling at her chest area. And all the women who were interviewed swear that their assets are all real!
Is it true then that people are never satisfied with what they have? For ladies who are flat, they want to be bigger, and for ladies who are lucky enough to be big, they want to reduce?! I will never go for any enhancement or reduction surgery because these are just not natural. Natural is the way I like mine, no matter what size they are!
12 comments:
Interesting topic, by from my own guy experiences, sometimes or most gals think that guys go for gals with boig boobs, but then from my experiences it is good to have such assests but again, the inner beauty will vey much supercede the external assets ya.
What I mean is the care and concern personality, the non-nagging but encouraging character....and the willingness to participate in good love-making without concentrating too much on physic rather on the ability to pleases, moan and groan together in estacy (ooops abit RA ya for adult onli)...that's my little feedback no this tpoic lor;-)
Live, Laugh and Love to enjoy life's rewards...
Urm... I guess Insecurity really comes from your own mind. Having good looks/shape etc, sure helps in boosting your *initial* confidence level. But if a person is hell bent on feeling insecure, he/she will always be able to find something to be insecure about.
The lady in the article still reduced them to C only. If she really hated 'big ones', she'd opt to go down to a B or even an A.
hey celia, i think the article you referred to is the same one i quoted frm - which is "Booby Traps" off last week's Urban section of The Straits Times..anyway, even though natural is always the best..i feel that it isn't quite fair to comment on what other girls do with their bustlines..some may reduce size because it affects their health and well-being while others may "up-size" to please their partners..i guess it's all down to individuals and their own choices..
David : Good personality does not necessary includes willingness to indulge in love-making.
Ole Wolvie : erh... from a guy's point of view, wouldn't guys prefer C-cups and above instead of something smaller? (just kidding)
Addy : Yes, now I remember where I read that article from. But it's true what you said, people can reduce or upsize for reasons of their own, although personally I'll never do it.
Eh I beg to differ....it all comes in a package...you will understand it when you are married in future that this package of personality, character, communication and the taboo subject of good love-making comes together....we are in the real world man.....
you will understand it when you are married in future that this package of personality, character, communication and the taboo subject of good love-making comes together.
Gosh...from one anonymous to another: I'll take it that you are married? Great...keep on advising us then, the singles. :\
Shakespeare: to me, shape matters more. As to how it shuld be, well, that's for me to know only :D
Small is good for ballet, sports and not having to worry that they'll sag the moment you take them off [life]support.
I'm Happy :)
Anon_X : Erh.. the other Anonymous above is not married.
Thamps : Aren't there sports bras for these purposes to give the utmost support?
Keke you don't hv to know about marriage to be married ya......you can observe from other peoples' experiences.....ya...
So, basic needs against are good love-making and communications and stop nagging hahas
Basic need of a marriage need not necessary be love-making. It's communication, yes, but also trust, commitment, companionship and compatibility. Relationships and marriage is more than just love-making alone.
then wait until you get married, and hopefully you will realise that behind the scene......sex and love-making is it;-)
from the guy's point of view ya:)
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